Frank Darko
Proposal
Can different parenting styles affect
decision making when it comes to social pressure
Decision making is a crucial tool
that no one can avoid. From government to families, to individual, each one of
us do take very decision whether important or insignificant. Does decision making
depend on age? It seems our society accept that decision depends on age.
Although everybody can make and should be allowed to make decisions, but at a
certain age most adolescent are not trusted to make very important decisions.
The ability for one to make quick-concise decisions especially when under
pressure is very important. Unfortunately most adolescents are almost always
under pressure from society to make decision whether they have the ability to
make the decision or not. This is clearly seen when it comes to voting,
alcohol, accommodation, just to mention a few. If age is tied to when
adolescents can make decisions, can they be trusted to make very important
automatically when they get to that age. This is when adults are to be involved
in adolescent developing the skill of make decision that will help rescue them
from the pressure that comes the society.
According to Brian C. Patridge, parents’
involvement in the decision making of adolescent is based on the emotional
involvement as well as the inability to see long term consequences with the
decision they make. He also states that the burden that parents have as
involving or making their children make better decisions in the future but
imitating their style of decision making also plays a huge role on why parents
are involved the decision making of adolescents. This means parents are
involved because they do believe adolescents might not have yet developed ability
to separate impulsivity. More research will done to establish the reason parent
will or will not want to be involved the decision making of adolescents.
Parents’ involvement in a decision
making of adolescents comes with its own controversies. Such a s; being a
parent doesn’t necessarily mean one has to master the act making the right decision
because everyone has at a point made terrible decisions. Making decisions is
quite different from the right decision. Nathan fox, a participant in a
research concerning how parenting affects neural response, states that “different
parenting styles orchestrates a range of negative results associated with behavioral
inhibition" (Fox, 564). This means that the parenting style used by
parents has a big role on the social interaction software individuals which
includes decision making.
Also, parenting style can cause
social redrawal which can lead to socioemotional difficulties. A research made
on social withdrawal and parenting style outlined that “parenting of children
who are withdrawn from society, mostly have parents that have tendency to using
parenting styles that are bit harsh, oversoliticitous combined with
overprotection.
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